Self-Care Techniques for Entrepreneurs Focused on Long-Term Success

January 6, 2026

Published by Seth Greene on February 12, 2026

August 20th changed everything for Lauren

Not because she closed a huge deal or finally figured out LinkedIn ads.

September 5th was the day she interviewed her first tax professional using a system I had been quietly testing with financial advisors, accountants, and attorneys.

Before the episode even went live, Lauren got an email.

It started simple: "Please meet Chelsea, Kim, and Laura..."

Then came the line that made her nearly drop her phone:

"I would like to get her set up and send eligible clients over to her team."

Within hours, another email: "Can we schedule a meeting next week? I look forward to connecting regarding retirement options and investments for our eligible clients."

Lauren had not paid for a sponsorship. Had not pitched anything. Had not asked for a referral.

She had opened a direct pipeline to Tax Strategist of America client base...before the episode aired.

When she told me, she was "pretty jacked" (her words). But more than that, she was relieved.

For the first time in years, she was not chasing leads. They came to her.

The Referral Myth Keeping Your Practice Stuck

For a decade, you have heard the same advice:

"Just ask your clients for referrals."
"Network more. Join another chamber."
"Sponsor that event. Get your name out there."

Here is the truth most will not tell you:

When you run the numbers, most "referral-based" businesses are not actually referral-based.

You get a trickle...a client mentions your name at a party. But it is random. Unpredictable. Not enough to hit your goals.

Meanwhile:

You are spending $15K-$50K+ per year on seminars that barely break even
Chasing Facebook ads, LinkedIn bots, and SEO agencies that promise everything
Sending referrals to "centers of influence" who never send anything back
Filling your calendar with unqualified leads who waste your time

Worst part? You do great work. Your clients just do not refer.

What If You Could Walk Into Rooms Full of Your Ideal Clients...And Be Invited?

I am Seth Greene. Over 30+ years, I have built my career around one belief:

The best clients do not come from cold outreach. They come from warm introductions in places where trust already exists.

I am not a guru. I am a practitioner. I have been nominated 3x for Marketer of the Year, co-host the SharkPreneur Podcast with Shark Tank Kevin Harrington (ranked #6 business podcast in the country), and written 9 books on direct response marketing.

But more importantly, I have spent years testing a system that does something most advisors think is impossible:

It gets you invited...not as a sponsor, but as a speaker and authority...into closed business groups full of people who need what you offer.

No awkward asks. No $25K sponsorship checks. No hoping your networking group comes through.

Just a steady flow of high-net-worth prospects who already trust you before you speak.

I call it The Ultimate Door Opener.

Why This Works When Everything Else Fails

This system is not for everyone.

It ONLY works if you:

Run a low-volume, high-margin practice (advisor, accountant, attorney)
Already do $1M+ annually
Serve business owners and high-net-worth individuals
Want relationships with real centers of influence...not transactional partners
Are willing to show up and play the long game
Are tired of being a "best-kept secret"

If you want a quick hack or magic funnel, close this page.

But if you are ready to stop chasing and start attracting, keep reading.

The Three Problems Killing Your Growth

Problem #1: "I am Not Getting Enough Qualified Referrals"

You have been told to "just ask." But even happy clients do not naturally refer you. And when they do, it is not the right fit.

Why: Your clients do not understand your ideal client profile. And they do not want to risk their relationships on a bad introduction.

The solution: Instead of waiting, you position yourself as the expert within the groups where your ideal clients gather. You are not asking for referrals...you are building relationships with group leaders who introduce you to everyone.

Problem #2: "Networking Does Not Work"

You have spent thousands on BNI, chambers, conferences. Shaken a thousand hands. Got almost nothing.

Why: Most networking is transactional. Everyone is trying to get something. No trust, no depth, no follow-through.

The solution: This bypasses surface-level networking. You get invited into established groups where trust already exists. You are not a salesperson...you are a resource the leader brings in to help. The dynamic is completely different.

Problem #3: "I Cannot Get In the Door"

You have tried sponsoring. Joining boards. But you are always on the outside. And when you do get in, the ROI is terrible.

Why: Groups are protective. They are bombarded with pitches from vendors. They have learned to say no.

The solution: You do not ask to sponsor. You do not pitch. You offer something so valuable that leaders seek you out. And you do it in a way that is compliance-friendly and scalable.

The Ultimate Door Opener Framework

Here's how it works:

Step 1: Identify Your Dream 50

Most advisors waste time being everything to everyone. We start laser-focused.

Identify your Dream 50...the 50 specific associations, business groups, alumni networks, hobby groups, and COIs where your ideal clients already are.

Not random groups. These are:

CEO roundtables
Industry associations (construction, medical, tech)
Alumni groups from top universities
Hobby communities (pilots, car collectors, wine clubs)
Professional groups where business owners trust each other

Rifle-shot targeting. Not spray-and-pray.

Why it works: When you know exactly who you are reaching, everything gets easier. You are not wasting time on groups that will never refer. You are building relationships with gatekeepers to your ideal clients.

Step 2: Position Yourself as the Authority

Here is the secret: you cannot "sell" your way in. But you can "serve" your way in.

You create a platform...usually a Spotlight Interview Series ...that positions you as the expert.

But here is the twist: the content is not about you. It is about the leaders you want to reach.

You interview them. Feature them. Make them look good.

In the process, you build a relationship, earn trust, and create a natural path for them to introduce you to their network.

Here’s what it looks like:

A professionally produced Spotlight Interview Series
A platform that attracts quality guests (everyone wants to be featured)
Content you repurpose into posts, emails, videos
A "warm introduction engine" that turns interviews into referrals

Oh, and if this feels overwhelming, don’t worry – you can explore having us do all this FOR you!

We handle everything...you just show up :)

Why it works: When you make someone else the star, they want to help you. Human nature. And when you have interviewed the association president, it is a lot easier to get invited to speak to their members.

Step 3: Turn Interviews Into Invitations

This is where it clicks.

After you interview a leader, you leverage that relationship to get invited in...not as a sponsor, but as a trusted resource.

This looks like:

Speaking at their next meeting (introduced as an expert, not a vendor)
Hosting a workshop for top members (face time with ideal clients)
Getting 1-on-1 introductions to key members (warm, not cold)
Co-creating content with the leader (deepening the relationship)

Remember Lauren? That is what happens when this clicks.

She interviewed a tax professional. Built rapport. Delivered value.

Before the episode aired, she had a pipeline of qualified referrals.

Why it works: People buy from people they trust. In closed groups, trust is built through warm introductions from the leader. When they vouch for you, the sale is 80% done.

Step 4: Scale and Systematize

Most advisors stop at one relationship. The real power is scalability.

Once you have proven the model (usually 120 days), you replicate it across your Dream 50.

That means:

2-4 strategic interviews per month
A network of 10, 20, 30+ leaders who refer regularly
A steady flow of speaking gigs, workshops, introductions
Positioning yourself as the expert (so groups reach out to you)

Note: If you work with us we do this FOR you and GUARANTEE you’ll complete one season (12-16 interviews) and build at least 10 solid COI relationships. If you don’t, we will work with you until you do.

Why it works: One relationship is nice. Ten is a business model. Twenty is a referral machine. This does not rely on luck...it is repeatable and compounds over time.

Three Reasons This Works When Other Marketing Fails

Reason #1: It is built on reciprocity, not pitching.
When you interview someone and promote them to your audience, they naturally want to help. It is relational. Relationships last.

Reason #2: It bypasses gatekeepers.
You are not trying to "sell" into a group. You are building a relationship with the leader...who is the gatekeeper. Once they trust you, they open every door.

Reason #3: It is compliance-friendly and scalable.
Unlike ads or sketchy lead-gen, this is 100% above-board. You provide value, build relationships, earn referrals the right way. And because it is based on content (not your time), it scales without burning you out.

But Do Not Just Take My Word For It...

But the best part about this program is the simplicity.

You do not need to slog through years of trial and error, chase expensive tactics, or piece together random advice.

Once your system is set up, you can simply follow the process, lean on our expertise, and let the framework guide you to results.

Our clients consistently move from random referrals... to predictable pipelines in as little as 120 days.

Consistent. Predictable. Achievable.

So...What is It Worth?

Let us talk numbers.

If you bring in just one new $2M+ client per year, what is that worth?

Conservative math:

Average annual revenue per $2M client: $20,000/year
Average client lifetime: 10 years
Lifetime value: $200,000

What if you bring in two per year? Or five?

What if you build relationships with 10, 15, 20 leaders who refer regularly?

The math gets ridiculous fast.

Most advisors see ROI within 120 days. Not because we are magicians...but because the system works when you work it.

Here is What You Need to Know About Investment

This is a hands-on partnership.

Not a course. Not a coaching program where we hand you a playbook and disappear.

We do the work with you.

What’s included:

Strategic Dream 50 Planning – We identify your ideal groups
Professionally Produced Spotlight Interview Series – We handle tech, branding, recording, editing, distribution (you just show up)
Guest Outreach and Scheduling – We book your Dream 50 contacts (no awkward emails from you)
Content Repurposing – Every interview becomes posts, emails, video clips (maximizing ROI)
Relationship Conversion Strategy – We coach you on turning interviews into speaking gigs and introductions
Ongoing Optimization – Monthly strategy calls to review, refine, scale

Typical engagement:

Initial setup: First 30 days
Active interviewing: 12 months (recommended)
Ongoing optimization: As long as you want to grow

Average ROI: Clients typically see 10-20X returns in the first year (conservatively, $300K-$500K in new revenue from relationships and referrals)

This is not an expense. It is an investment in a client acquisition system that compounds over time.

Our Guarantee: 10 Solid COI Relationships or We Keep Working

We are confident this works...because we have seen it work for dozens of advisors, accountants, and attorneys.

Here is our promise:

If you complete one season (12-16 episodes) and do not build at least 10 solid COI relationships, we will keep working with you until you do.

No fine print. No excuses.

Either this works for you, or we have not done our job.

If you would like to build a predictable referral engine...you have two options:

Option 1

Try to figure it out on your own.

Keep asking for referrals, networking at random events, sponsoring associations, and chasing marketing tactics that promise results but do not deliver.

Some make it work. Most do not.

And even if you do, it takes years to build a referral network that moves the needle.

Option 2

Enroll in our comprehensive Ultimate Door Opener program and let our expertise guide you through every step.

Get your platform built, your Dream 50 mapped, your guests booked, and your content created...so you can focus on showing up and building relationships.

Together, we will:

Provide complete Dream 50 strategy and implementation
Match you with our team for personalized support
Deliver your professional podcast platform
Connect you with group leaders and book interviews
Support your relationship conversion and scaling

Ready to Open the Right Doors? Apply today!

When you apply, you will discover:

The Complete Ultimate Door Opener System – See exactly how we build your platform, identify your Dream 50, and turn interviews into warm introductions and referrals
Your Dedicated Support Team – Learn how our hands-on partnership works and meet the team who will handle everything from Spotlight Interview Series production to guest outreach
Professional Platform and Resources – Explore everything included in your setup plus exclusive access to our network and conversion strategies

Apply Now!

Seth Greene

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Self-Care Techniques for Entrepreneurs Focused on Long-Term Success

Self-Care Techniques for Entrepreneurs Focused on Long-Term Success

August 20th changed everything for Lauren

Not because she closed a huge deal or finally figured out LinkedIn ads.

September 5th was the day she interviewed her first tax professional using a system I had been quietly testing with financial advisors, accountants, and attorneys.

Before the episode even went live, Lauren got an email.

It started simple: "Please meet Chelsea, Kim, and Laura..."

Then came the line that made her nearly drop her phone:

"I would like to get her set up and send eligible clients over to her team."

Within hours, another email: "Can we schedule a meeting next week? I look forward to connecting regarding retirement options and investments for our eligible clients."

Lauren had not paid for a sponsorship. Had not pitched anything. Had not asked for a referral.

She had opened a direct pipeline to Tax Strategist of America client base...before the episode aired.

When she told me, she was "pretty jacked" (her words). But more than that, she was relieved.

For the first time in years, she was not chasing leads. They came to her.

The Referral Myth Keeping Your Practice Stuck

For a decade, you have heard the same advice:

"Just ask your clients for referrals."

"Network more. Join another chamber."

"Sponsor that event. Get your name out there."

Here is the truth most will not tell you:

When you run the numbers, most "referral-based" businesses are not actually referral-based.

You get a trickle...a client mentions your name at a party. But it is random. Unpredictable. Not enough to hit your goals.

Meanwhile:

You are spending $15K-$50K+ per year on seminars that barely break even

Chasing Facebook ads, LinkedIn bots, and SEO agencies that promise everything

Sending referrals to "centers of influence" who never send anything back

Filling your calendar with unqualified leads who waste your time

Worst part? You do great work. Your clients just do not refer.

What If You Could Walk Into Rooms Full of Your Ideal Clients...And Be Invited?

I am Seth Greene. Over 30+ years, I have built my career around one belief:

The best clients do not come from cold outreach. They come from warm introductions in places where trust already exists.

I am not a guru. I am a practitioner. I have been nominated 3x for Marketer of the Year, co-host the SharkPreneur Podcast with Shark Tank Kevin Harrington (ranked #6 business podcast in the country), and written 9 books on direct response marketing.

But more importantly, I have spent years testing a system that does something most advisors think is impossible:

It gets you invited...not as a sponsor, but as a speaker and authority...into closed business groups full of people who need what you offer.

No awkward asks. No $25K sponsorship checks. No hoping your networking group comes through.

Just a steady flow of high-net-worth prospects who already trust you before you speak.

I call it The Ultimate Door Opener.

Why This Works When Everything Else Fails

This system is not for everyone.

It ONLY works if you:

Run a low-volume, high-margin practice (advisor, accountant, attorney)

Already do $1M+ annually

Serve business owners and high-net-worth individuals

Want relationships with real centers of influence...not transactional partners

Are willing to show up and play the long game

Are tired of being a "best-kept secret"

If you want a quick hack or magic funnel, close this page.

But if you are ready to stop chasing and start attracting, keep reading.

The Three Problems Killing Your Growth

Problem #1: "I am Not Getting Enough Qualified Referrals"

You have been told to "just ask." But even happy clients do not naturally refer you. And when they do, it is not the right fit.

Why: Your clients do not understand your ideal client profile. And they do not want to risk their relationships on a bad introduction.

The solution: Instead of waiting, you position yourself as the expert within the groups where your ideal clients gather. You are not asking for referrals...you are building relationships with group leaders who introduce you to everyone.

Problem #2: "Networking Does Not Work"

You have spent thousands on BNI, chambers, conferences. Shaken a thousand hands. Got almost nothing.

Why: Most networking is transactional. Everyone is trying to get something. No trust, no depth, no follow-through.

The solution: This bypasses surface-level networking. You get invited into established groups where trust already exists. You are not a salesperson...you are a resource the leader brings in to help. The dynamic is completely different.

Problem #3: "I Cannot Get In the Door"

You have tried sponsoring. Joining boards. But you are always on the outside. And when you do get in, the ROI is terrible.

Why: Groups are protective. They are bombarded with pitches from vendors. They have learned to say no.

The solution: You do not ask to sponsor. You do not pitch. You offer something so valuable that leaders seek you out. And you do it in a way that is compliance-friendly and scalable.

The Ultimate Door Opener Framework

Here's how it works:

Step 1: Identify Your Dream 50

Most advisors waste time being everything to everyone. We start laser-focused.

Identify your Dream 50...the 50 specific associations, business groups, alumni networks, hobby groups, and COIs where your ideal clients already are.

Not random groups. These are:

CEO roundtables

Industry associations (construction, medical, tech)

Alumni groups from top universities

Hobby communities (pilots, car collectors, wine clubs)

Professional groups where business owners trust each other

Rifle-shot targeting. Not spray-and-pray.

Why it works: When you know exactly who you are reaching, everything gets easier. You are not wasting time on groups that will never refer. You are building relationships with gatekeepers to your ideal clients.

Step 2: Position Yourself as the Authority

Here is the secret: you cannot "sell" your way in. But you can "serve" your way in.

You create a platform...usually a Spotlight Interview Series ...that positions you as the expert.

But here is the twist: the content is not about you. It is about the leaders you want to reach.

You interview them. Feature them. Make them look good.

Reason #1: It is built on reciprocity, not pitching.
When you interview someone and promote them to your audience, they naturally want to help. It is relational. Relationships last.

Reason #2: It bypasses gatekeepers.
You are not trying to "sell" into a group. You are building a relationship with the leader...who is the gatekeeper. Once they trust you, they open every door.

Reason #3: It is compliance-friendly and scalable.
Unlike ads or sketchy lead-gen, this is 100% above-board. You provide value, build relationships, earn referrals the right way. And because it is based on content (not your time), it scales without burning you out.